We all now this feeling: People telling you something, but their actions are the complete opposite. It can be at work, with friends etc.
These empty
promises and words are really annoying and shouldn’t be part of a friendship.
I recently
had a moment, where I was really looking forward to seeing a friend again after
so many years. We met years ago in Vancouver and chat regularly. It was like: „I’m coming to Switzerland, where should I stay?...“
Did this friend show up? NO!
It’s
disappointing, but it happens so much, especially with smaller things. People
want to buy time or are scared and then they just say something to make the
other person happy. Actually doing it, is something totally different.
Seeing the
action, that’s the special thing in a friendship or in a family.
We all
deserve more than empty words and promises.
Saying the
words is easy, but actually staying true to them?! It shouldn’t be that hard
right, or at least have a good reason to break them. How about an apology?! We are
all only human after all, we can’t be perfect, but at least be honest about
your mistake.
When it
happens over and over again though, it gets really annoying. Surround yourself
by people who stay true to their words and to people who are there for you.
Everything else is a waste of time!
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